Friday, January 8, 2010

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Hmong New Year Pov Pob

On New Years day 2010, I had the honor to attend the International Hmong New Year celebration in Fresno Ca.

I asked for the definition of Pov Pob and it was explained to me by 3 Hmong's that it was a communication tool of passing and opening communications. The young men also explained that is was used in courtship. Getting to know a person.

I was invited to play.

I watched in fasination hundreds playing and tossing tennis balls from young to old.

As a Mediator, I learned something on January 1st, how a tennis ball can open and start a relationship a friendship and open the door for commuications.

I thank the Hmong community for giving and sharing this gift.

I treasure this cultural communication.

Mariposa County Courthouse

Jim W Hildreth Mediator has been appointed to 5 California civil mediation panels in the following California Superior Courts as a Mediator.

Alameda, Amador, Calaveras, Merced & El Dorodo County.

Beyond court appointed mediations, Hildreth mediates private disputes and his speciality is real estate.

He works closely with the legal community and has decades of experience dealing with real property.

California real estate contracts call out for mediation in disputes and Hildreth has over 33 years experience dealing in real estate.

Mediation is confidential and private.

He serves the San Francisco Bay Area, Central Valley and Mother Lode.

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Mediation Private, Confidential, Flexable , Informal

Mediation is private and confidential, flexible and informal.

Typically, it is concluded expeditiously at moderate
cost. The subject matter can be complex or simple, the
stakes large or small, the number of parties few or many.

The process typically is far less adversarial than litigation
or arbitration, and therefore less disruptive of business
relationships.

Since other options are not foreclosed if
mediation should fail, entering into a mediation process
presents few risks.

Frequently cited advantages of mediation include:

• Substantial cost savings
• Promptness of resolution
• Creative, business-driven solutions
• Control over the outcome
• Preservation of business relationships
• Privacy and confidentiality



Jim W Hildreth-Mediator
(510) 647-3600
www.RealEstateMediation.org

Breaking Up is a Challenge.

Breaking up can be a challenge for any couple. married or not.

What to do with jointly held real estate, the challenges of having different equities.

Who makes the payments? What if one of the parties stops paying the mortgage.

How does negative credit impact future borrowing to start over.

Who keeps the animals. Who pays for feed and veterinary care?

What happens if a partner has lack of funds to buy the other partner out.

Each of these conflicts can be apart of making a transition.

Each of these conflicts may occur in a breakup and as a mediator need to be
discussed to bring about resolve.

Mediation with a neutral who is trained and skilled can open doors in these phase of life issues.

Trust, honesty and listening skills and knowledge of real estate are ingredients
for successful dispute resolution when owning real estate jointly.

Mediation can play an important role vs litigation.

Jim W Hildreth is a Northern California mediator who's focus is disputes involving real estate.






Jim W Hildreth-Mediator
(510) 647-3600
www.RealEstateMediation.org